That’s been the problem—you feeling you must explain,
apologize, start up friendships again…be a “peacemaker”, make him happy, say
the “right things”, explain it all. Like
feeling you “should” take him to lunch to clear the air, to talk, to explain
your new-found understanding….it is for you, not him…for you to live, not him
to understand. He must come to you. Not you to him. When you go to him you step out of your South
position and "he" has no south. Then the
wobbling begins. Stay! Stay put!
He must reach his hand out to you, looking west, not south. Your hand is out isn’t it? (Yes) So leave it there! “Beam” him love, pray for him. Remember to PRAY for him—put his name in the
temple and leave him in God’s hands.
Would you want someone besides Christ, to think they can “save”
you? You understand now don’t you? Satan wants to save us too—to step out of the
South, purity and God’s will, to his own will, his own way. Thus “the war on the woman” means the woman
will constantly try to save man, “her man”, and things will constantly be out
of sync and order. Until the woman STAYS
PUT! Stays with Christ! Christ is in the
south to aide you and all women!
The “curse of Eve” is that she still has the same needs as
man—we are just seen differently. As
some untouchable, mystery, attractive, illusive, enchanting, annoying—something
to reach out and “conquer”. (This is the
natural man’s sight towards women.)
Women annoyed at men for this and men annoyed once they “get” the
woman---she doesn't solve his emptiness.
He must solve his own emptiness—His separation from God, and his Son of
God status. Until he truly believes it--is “born anew in Christ”--then he will search from “sea to shining sea”. Rape is the very edge of man’s anger, towards
himself, turned outward towards anyone.
His unrighteous need to conquer and control. His true joy is found in conquering and
controlling him-”self”—the natural man and ego.
The Garden of Eden is when man didn't have to sweat (and fight) and
conquer…himself. Or to get food for his
family. He is angry at Eve for his
current status, unable to see that work is a blessing to his natural man—to conquer
himself through self-discipline and intelligent work. As long as he is working toward the perfect
end. “To multiply and replenish the
Earth” And return the earth back to an Eden-like state by replenishing the
earth as well. Mankind has multiplied very well but how have we replenished this
earth? Or women?
When the earth is renewed and "receives it's Paradisaical Glory" or becomes Terrestrial, all will be happy--because they are happy inside. But if "he" is in the
conquer mode, he cannot be happy. When a
man acknowledges his shadow side—the one that must conquer and control” and
says, “Thanks for showing me that God is wiser and great and I need Him to
rescue me from myself”, then he will achieve the balance he needs, in addition
to replenishing the earth.
When both male and female acknowledge
and honor shadow, multiply and replenish the earth, seek balance then --he and she-- will
then be working with God.
Eve will be happy when she acknowledges and honors her
shadow --her natural woman “need” to be accepted and loved, by a man to make her
whole. And to have children. What about those women who can’t have
children? Are they less? Not at all.
They can still have “posterity”; Are not all in pattern of eventual
Godhood? To nurture and love all of Gods
children. Aren't’ all “your own children on loan from God? She is also Bringer of Life; Mother of all living.
A woman is symbolic of Jesus the Christ. He laid down his life for man with blood and water. Every time a woman gives birth, she “lays down her life” and through blood and water, gives life to body and spirit. Jesus the Christ gives life to the body through the Resurrection, and to our spirit through repentance, acceptance of him and baptism, ordinances and covenants. Even
without having children she can do this—by hearkening to the voice of the Lord
in her daily life. Lift down trodden
hands; that is why Relief Society was started; as a pattern and tool to teach
women how to pull out of themselves and serve God—by serving their
fellowmen. Service to earth and man-- is
the key; Man to bless the earth, women
to bless the Spirit of God in the flesh.
“Menopause”—Men—pause.
Returns woman to her former Eden-like position as a child. Prepares her to focus on all of God’s
children, not just her own. Expands her
vision, enlightens and inspires her. Not
a curse, but a great blessing! For she
is promised that as her heart is right and
she desires to serve Father and to hearken to his voice, through the spirit
(husband) then she will receive all the
Eternal Promises. Eternity is a long
time!
Whether she is 33 or 43 or 53, when she is done with bringing
the spirit bodies down, she is done. God
knows. Now it is time to nurture the
spirits of those around her and those placed in her path by Christ. To listen to the voice of Christ. Then directly or indirectly receive and
hearken to the voice of the Father--she can do it. It will return her to the state of, “being as
a little child”. She won’t have to
“worry” about getting pregnant any longer because that phase is done, for now
in her earth walk. She can be a true
instrument in God’s hand, “Humble, meek, submissive (to God) forgiving.”
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You have a work here and it is not “your”
children. It is “My Family.”
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To help others see the good in themselves. Their religions and culture.
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To show the Truth about it all. The false concepts and traditions, and the
parts to rejoice over.
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You have eternities to come. Don’t worry about certain things that will
take place in the eternities. Right now
the Father has a place for you.
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Bringer of Life—Garden, sing, dance, paint,
volunteer, love your family, rejoice in your husband, and follow my
Spirit. All have little child within to
care for, love—your “posterity”; The Savior as a guide. Yoke to Him.
Follow the spirit as it directs for your “informal” education.
I I want to prove through you that God is
powerful and can use “the weak things of the earth” for His purposes. You don’t need a “degree” of man. Just a degree of God’s spirit—without Him you
are nothing. Without a job, the degree
of man means nothing. You don’t have a
job to use your ‘degree’ without God’s spirit---so listen! Learn.
Believe. Write it down. Keep good records. Write your thoughts and feelings down about
healing, cultures, etc.
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Use your journals as your “scientific study” of
Life. Life is one Big Laboratory. It won’t affect your eternal standing to get
your “tubes tied” through earth time and earth’s promises. Your tubes will eventually degenerate
anyway!
Thus you never have to worry
about the “empty nest”—because you keep your nest open to all of God’s children
around you. All are his children, all
have a little child within, at all ages and cultures.
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Your great love will help heal and turn them to
the joyous truth about themselves and God’s—He lives! He loves us.
She lives, She loves us! The
gospel of Christ is True. He is the Way
and the light and the life. You never
need to worry about “being loved” and accepted by a man. You are loved through and through by the
greatest men!
